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Afghan-NATO and Pak-India conflict: Radicalization of youth a growing phenomenon in Pakistan By Aarzoo Naeem Chaudhry

Afghan-NATO and Pak-India conflict: Radicalization of youth a growing phenomenon in Pakistan

By Aarzoo Naeem Chaudhry


ne of the most important realizations in the year 2009 for me was that a lot of young people around me lack two basic, essential qualities –Respect and belief in Peace. Why this past one year? Because earlier I never really cared about people’s opinions or interacted with young people other than my friends. I never talked to people my age or younger on how they feel about the world around us. I assumed all young people wanted peace and normality to return to their lives and Pakistan. I thought all this because it was what I wanted.

Yes, I was ignorant, but now I’m shocked.

–  Majority of young people do not believe that peace is the solution. Guns and bloodshed are the final way out.

–  A lot of them think all Pakistanis are Muslims and Pakistan belongs to Islam. Only.

–  They have little or no respect for other religions, nationalities etc.

Sherman tank charges
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I thought, why? Why would young people be so ignorant and pessimistic? I feel that the problem lies with those who are sources of inspirations for young minds –our parents, teachers, elder siblings and of course the media. There’s little we are doing to teach children and the young generation about respect –not just the’ respect’ that is associated with humans, parents, teachers etc. but respect, which is born out of tolerance. Respect for all people, religions, races and cultures.

There is a great need to teach children about the concept of ‘Respect’, because the world they have been born into is diversified yet inter connected. Only those people can survive and bring peace into this world who know how to co-exist. Yes, co-existence is the key to the future. New media, mass migrations, diasporas and so many other things have made us inter-related and inter connected. We can now meet people belonging to any country or religion of the world in a matter of minutes at minimal cost.

I’m speaking from personal experience and because the teenagers and young people I meet have little respect for others. They will dish out racist comments without even realizing what they’ve said. A close friend of mine would keep saying ‘Churi’ (a derogatory word once used for Christians) without realizing what it meant and she’d say it in front of some of our Christian friends. It was embarrassing for her once she was corrected in front of a lot of people in a party and that’s when she realized what she’d been saying. A lot of people comment without thinking that it may be offensive to those around you. To top it all off, I have seen such comments on Facebook –a social networking website used by MILLIONS of people! At least learn some form of co-existence from social networking websites! It may be because many of us haven’t grown up with the consciousness that there are people of other religions, races and ethnicities around or communicated with people from a different background.

Afghan Girl/Steve McCurry/1983
Photo by .Andy Chang.

Many of us realize this when we go abroad to study and have to live and communicate with people from different backgrounds. It may be too late then, but at least you learn something! The most important thing I have learned by interacting with people from different cultures is ‘respect’. As Pakistanis, we should know a lot about respecting other nationalities and religions because we are direct victims of racist comments and stereotyped identity.  In fact we should know how it feels to be set apart and be known as ‘pakis’, ‘brown people’ or more recently, ‘terrorists’ by some ignorant people around the world.

Another thing that has been annoying me for quite some time now is how some will go on and on and on about how Pakistan belongs to Muslims and we are the ones who are pure and ‘Pak’ without realizing that they may be talking to someone from another religion. Patriotism has little to do with religion, you may not agree with me, but that is how I feel. A good Pakistani does not equate to a good Muslim, so stop mixing these things up. Recently, I was listening to a highly emotional (almost filmi) speech on patriotism by someone on television and I thought to myself that were I a Christian, Sikh or Hindu Pakistani listening to this speech, which smartly mixed Islam with Pakistan, I would be downright offended. I’ve been accused of being a non-believer and that I’m negating the Two Nation Theory by saying all of this.

Another thing that annoys me is hatred towards India. It is irritating! Like I’ve said, I’m not ‘pro-India’, I’m not pro-‘anyone’ except Pakistan, but I cannot hate India or Indians. We cannot be one; there is no ‘United India’. We have our own identity as Pakistanis, and will remain like this. I have seen celebrities give statements on TV, which are to the effect that ‘We are one –Pakistanis and Indians.’ Well, I strongly disagree. No, we are not one, we will never be one. BUT this does not mean I hate Indians. I’ve grown up with them and some of my best friends are Indians and Bangladeshi. Hatred is a destructive emotion; I’d suggest all those who ‘hate’ India, to think over it. By calling another country names and abusing her you are not doing your own country any favor. Bring a change in your own country, do something positive for it. Pakistan does not need you to spew hatred against others or spread conspiracies. Pakistan needs you to educate where there is no education, to build where people are deprived of basic necessities, to save people from social injustices and poverty. She does not need you to plant seeds of suspicion and hatred.

Happy Eid e Qorban
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There is no need, no place for hatred in this world, so don’t let it grow in your heart. Every time I say I believe in peace, I’ve gotten amused looks and comments like, ‘Are you pro-India?’, ‘That’s so clichéd and out-dated. Peace? *snorts*’ etc. I mean, come on people, what is so wrong with believing in peace? Do we have another way out? Boycott, protest, demand your rights but don’t take out your guns and shed blood!

Respect the diverse world you live in. Respect people, no matter what their color, caste or creed.

Believe in peace.

Like Kahlil Gibran said,

“An eye for an eye, and the whole world would be blind.”



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Fareeha Qayoom
Fareeha Qayoom
Publisher and editor-in-chief of and former print editions of The Knit-Xtyle Fashion Review (tkfr), a trade newsletter for the textile and apparel industry of Pakistan. In short, Publisher, editor, and a blogger. In addition, she has served as Managing Editor of MIT Technology Review Pakistan, print and web editions (2015-16). Total of 7 editions were published under her leadership by ITU, Punjab's first public technology university under the license of MIT Technology Review (USA). She has also managed Value Mag in the same capacity, a real estate and lifestyle magazine for Value TV - 2008-9. Published freelancer for The News on Sunday 1994-96. Fareeha has over 21 years of solid management experience – of managing brands (like Harley Davidson, Munsingwear, Chaps, Chaps Ralph Lauren etc.,), Retailers (like Target, Mervyns, Kohl's, Marks and Spencer etc.,), customers (VPs, Product Managers, Unit Managers, and Buyers), and products (apparel - woven, knits, men's, women's, children's, Print and online publishing units), projects, teams, and processes, information, content, and data, staff, vendors, and time. Versatile and adaptable with international exposure, communication and language skills (oral and written), and a consistent track record of achieving company targets and objectives, plus a MA in Political Science from Punjab University, a MSc in Economics from La Salle University, Louisiana, USA, and a BA in Economics from Kinnaird College for Women.


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  2. Irum Ahsan says:

    It is a very realistic piece.

    I know that today’s youth is not as tolerant as our ancestors were but then our ancestors did not see this troubled world. Honestly I have all the hopes from our youth because my experience is a little different. I find today’s student much more aware and conscious of race, religion, peace, and freedom. I found today’s students much more curious to find out about his or her religion and religions of others.

    As for India and Pakistan, I agree that we are different and we can be good friends by respecting each others boundaries. Aarzoo is so right in saying that a good Pakistani is not necessarily a good Muslim. Let’s embrace the fact that countries are not found in the name of “a” particular religion, boundaries are always marked for economic and political gain which automatically leads to stability and peace.

    If anything, the terrorism in Pakistan is making its people more aware of all religions especially Islam and tolerance and they are craving more and more for peaceful coexistence.

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  3. Jan 22nd 2010 – Friday

    As I said in my article “The story of terrible twins: can there be meaningful peace with India?” – you have to worry about the collective behavior – India’s collective and official behavior is discriminatory, provocative and downright nasty – the stuff that’s coming out of their newspapers (and commentary of their individuals on public forums), their officials and even now IPL is not based on mutual respect and fairness. How can you expect your youth to show maturity by not reacting? They are young after all! 🙂

    If you are looking for news on IPL – check this Dawn link –


    From the Indian press
    Thursday, 21 Jan, 2010
    News and comments from the Indian press in the aftermath of the exclusion of Pakistani cricketers from the Indian Premier League as reported in Dawn.


    Factors other than sports caused IPL row: FO
    By Imran Ali Teepu
    Friday, 22 Jan, 2010

    ISLAMABAD: The Foreign Office said on Thursday that exclusion of Pakistani cricketers from the bidding process of the Indian Premier League (IPL) “is a decision influenced by variables extraneous to sports”.–bi-06

    You might also find Dawn’s editorial interesting too…

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    Maybe he was playing to an Indian audience and saying what it wanted to hear. The true import of US Defence Secretary Robert Gates’s recent statements in New Delhi will be known only after assessing the remarks he makes during the Pakistani leg of his ongoing South Asian tour.

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  4. According to Indian officials (based on their official’s statements, newspapers and blogs), they can’t be held responsible for the behavior of their private organizations but by the same token, funnily enough, they hold our government responsible for any ‘terrorist incidents’ on their soil by threatening war or worse. They keep on reiterating that Pakistani Government should curb the behavior of terrorist and extremist organizations operating within this region (the implication being that these terrorists are on government payroll!) while its us, the real targets, that are actually facing the worst spate of terrorism recorded in the world history almost daily – funny world we live in – full of double standards, injustice and oppression – where the victim is actually responsible for the crimes committed against her! Nothing is safe from bias apparently, not even sports.

    What the heck happened to “Aman ki Asha” anyway? 🙂

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    Jan 26th 2010 – Tuesday –
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  5. Aarzoo says:

    Our youth is aware of other races and cultures but I find that they still have to develop an active conscious about it.
    Anti-american and Indian sentiments are on the rise and may be justified as well at some points…and this is where we need to teach our youth to do something constructive. These sentiments/hatred no matter how justified will bring no good to yourself or your country.

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  7. Aarzoo says:

    Wake-Up Pakistan has been a constant pain for me. They’ve not done anything yet…and I couldn’t agree with that article more….so true!

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  9. Campus intimidation
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  10. The phoenix flops
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  11. Dialectics of humanity and violence
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